Being a single mom and still providing for yourself or your possible children can be a very stressful and frustrating experience. There are many problems in finances, and getting help for single moms isn’t always very easy- but there are some services you should be aware of.
Education loans can be very tough to pay back, should you have debts remaining on your student loans. This may force many moms to be forced to consolidate their payments, which will put them into debt for 10-30 years, but allow them to keep out of bankruptcy longer. If you have children who wish to obtain student loans, and you are a single mother, it is harder to get such loans for a few simple reasons. First, women usually make less money than men. If you are a single mom, you don’t have a partner’s help with income, and also learn less than a man would. You are also less likely to have enough collateral to prove that you can pay the loans back, and you are more likely to have previous debts to pay. Education loans and single moms obviously do not mix well together, as you can see.
Like education loans, automobile and home loans operate in the same manner. You are more likely to be rejected for a house rather than an apartment, since houses on average cost much more. Automobiles also put single moms at a disadvantage- since automobiles often break down, requiring more money be spent. This makes the odds that a single mother can pay back a loan less likely, as maintenance can eat up much of a single mother’s income.
Business loans are another subject that may cause single mothers to have trouble obtaining loans. This is increasingly harder than other loans, since businesses are extremely risky operations. The odds of maintaining a successful business is usually quite low for small business owners. Having sufficient collateral is again a problem with single mothers, forcing many to not get the needed business loans to start their own business. Single mothers usually have a lower credit score, since they incur more debts than other couples or single men on average. This will also lead to a lesser chance of getting approved by credit card companies, making the buying power of single mothers even more burdensome.
However, there are ways to influence or take advantage of situations in favor of single mothers. You may speak with the Department of Social Services for things such as welfare, food stamps, child support, medical programs, and child care assistance. These programs can be found in phone books or in government agencies. There is a lot of paperwork to apply, and the waiting time can be very long. The wait is often worth it, since single mothers need all the help they can get.
School lunch and breakfast programs should be taken advantage of. This is a federal program that gives reduced prices or even free lunches and breakfast to kids who attend school, and eat at the school. Other grants can help you in funding for food or even gas and heating bills. Churches often have programs to help as well, and you should explore all of these options for a better life for children a single mom may have. Reduced prescriptions and free counseling are also available to those who apply- so make sure you take advantage of such offers to the fullest.
When looking to improve your credit score, you should have family members or roommates split bills, and put some bills in your name. This will improve your dependability and credit rating. Also make sure that you stay away from penalties such as bounced checks, which can effectively ruin your credit. Doing this will eventually raise your credit score enough to gain some respect among loan specialists, which can bring you to a new step above where you previously were.
When you have better access to loans, you can get lower rates. You can better obtain a business loan, for example, with your improved credit rating. You may also co-sign loans with family members to add credit to your score- and regular payments will again boost it. In case you can not make a payment, the money is then billed to your family member- so either way the bank will most likely get its money. This is the best way to obtain a loan if you are not qualified enough, and doing so is one of the best ways to improve your credit.
Over all, single moms have a big disadvantage. Statistically, they will make less money and not qualify for loans. They will also have more poor living experiences, and will have less buying power. Following the previous steps will allow single moms to achieve a better way of life for them or their children, regardless of their standing in society’s hierarchy.
Sofia 10:39 am on February 29, 2008 Permalink |
Business loans are a staple nowadays for small businesses. Success doesn’t come easily especially to those who are venturing out for the first time so loans come as a necessity to keep things going. Thanks for the info!
christina 9:00 pm on July 16, 2009 Permalink |
i am inquiring regarding i am in desperate need of funds or assistance
my husband and i are seperated still living together our kids and i reside in palmdale, ca
my kids and i have not only been subjected to emotional abuse and denied medical treatment when me and our kids are sick but my husband has financial abuse tendecies he says to our kids its his money and he does everything in his power to keep me away from his money going as far as not letting me have a debit card anymore and going behind my back and closing our mutual checking account and opening a checking account just for himself
i have a friend in indiana willing to take me and my kids in but i have not worked no income of my own ive been a stay at home mother for 20 years
please help what do i do?
kind regards
christina
SUSAN FOX 8:37 pm on March 12, 2008 Permalink |
hello, my name is Susan Fox and im looking into opening my own home based small company. and i was wondering you would send me information reguarding the proper way of receiving a small business loan.. thank you for your help..
renee parker 7:30 pm on May 4, 2008 Permalink |
Iam in need of a personal loan thank you
sherry Hann 10:48 pm on July 23, 2008 Permalink |
I have left my verbally abusive husband of 20 years. He has made it finacially impossible for me to survive thus forcing me to go back, I never dreamed there was such a web site, I have been turned down for loans everywhere I did come back but the abuse just gets worse
Tamara 6:03 pm on December 22, 2008 Permalink |
Hi my name is tamara sturgill i recently lost my job they laid me off two weeks before christmas.My mom has been sick in the hospital , the doctors just diagnosed me with cervical cancer , i have 4 kids a 7 yr old girl 3 yr old set of twin boys and a 2 month old baby girl and this is the first christmas that ive not been able to provide for them please if you can help me,contact by mail or e-mail please and anything will help